After divorce your head is spinning, you get advice from everyone and you don’t know what to do for the best. You don’t even know what the best is. It is hard to make important decisions about your future and your children’s future while you feel vulnerable and totally out of your depth.
We are here to offer you our experiences and to let you know worked well for us. We too felt scared and alone… so we’ll start easily and take you through step-by-step….
Routines and day-to-day care are wrapped up in big fancy words like child custody, child visitation, parenting plans, rights, and so on. It can feel quite scary and sometimes confusing when you start looking at the calculation sheets and people give you all the options.
Have you ever thought…
“How the heck do I cope parenting with my Ex? They’re unreasonable about everything! They’re always pointing out faults over what I do! The children seem to still want to see them … even though I’d rather they didn’t.”
If this is you – the good news is here. Like you, the author knows how hard it is to parent with an Ex and has written down the best proven strategies to help smooth the road ahead for you and your children.
Over 400 pages covering:
– How to tell your kids you’re getting divorced
– How to create the best routine for your family
– How to talk with your Ex without becoming a blithering idiot
– How to avoid court but still get what you want
– How to introduce a stepparent
In the Words of the Author:
“Facing the reality of divorce felt like facing the feeling that I had failed. If it was just me and the Ex husband, I could have coped with that … sore but okay. The fact that there were three children involved seemed to make things so much worse.
If I made the decision to leave my marriage or not, it was like I was sentencing my children to living their life with a huge disability. This of course was my worst nightmare, especially after all my dedication and effort to be the best parent I could be. It all seemed useless now because I was getting divorced.
I’d like to let you know the big secret that changed everything for me…
It took me years to put it into practice but it really has made a difference to my life and the lives of so many parents that I have helped through counselling and coaching.
It is so important that we do more to help our children through divorce. They are innocent and yet the statistics tell us a very sad story…
They are five time more likely to be poor. More likely to drop out of school, be in trouble with the law, become a teen parent, and they’re more likely to divorce themselves. As a result, they are also more likely to die before the average age from ill health. This is not great for us as parents!
This also doesn’t have to stay this way. There is an answer – and thankfully, I’ve figured it out so you don’t have to take chances with your children any longer.
Having read, studied, listened and experienced so many different options and opinions, I finally discovered the one big secret that made all the difference to me – and many many parents.
This big secret is “It wasn’t what happened but what I chose to do about it” that really mattered.
Sounds easy – and it is easy. Here’s the next part you’ll want to know though. What do you choose then?
Over more than a decade of living this – and helping many parents do the same, I finally put pen to paper and have answered over 60 of the most Frequently Asked Questions.
Even though I had to figure it all out with some trial and error, you don’t have too. You can now have a step-by-step process to raise fantastic children even once you’ve been through a divorce, regardless of the reasons.”
Here’s some of the topics in the book:
- Breaking the news to your children – what’s the best way?
- Day to day care – Who should look after them?
- Routines – How much time should they spend with each parent?
- Friends & Family – How do you tell them and what do you expect from them?
- Work – How do you handle all the complications of earning money or getting a job?
- School – What do you do about the children’s schooling and friends?
- Discipline – Do we have to keep it consistent even with an Ex that won’t talk?
- Birthdays & Christmas – What do you do about keeping these special?
- Stepparents – How do you introduce them? How do you make it work with them?
- Legal – What to pay your lawyer and when to see them.
- Money – Who should pay how much.
As you can see there are so many topics that you probably haven’t even begun to think about yet. And you don’t have too.
The hard work has been done for you – all you need to do is read it. This 400+ page book may seem a lot but it’s because this book is laid out easily so that you can find the answers you want when you need them.
By learning all of these:
- You’ll stop taking risks with your children’s lives
- You’ll stop fighting with the children’s other parent
- You’ll stop the legal bills
- You’ll stop the Ex infecting your children with their poison
- You’ll start enjoying your children’s major events – graduations, weddings, birthdays
- You’ll start creating a healthy family again.
If you’ve been through divorce, separation or some form of family breakdown, this book is for you. It’s making a difference in the lives of people all over the world and it will for you too!
Take the time now to really make a difference for yourself and your precious children.
Thanks for being a person who CARES about your family enough to take action and start creating a healthy Complex Family.
“This book is probably the best investment you could make after Divorce – I thought it was the most sense I had heard… but i did not find it until i had spent $1000’s on Lawyer Fees!”
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